Working Time and Writing Time. What's In-Between?
"Tuesday is the day before hump day. Thursday is one day after hump day. Except Friday is WOOOH!!! FREEDOM!!! Day, Saturday is Mostly Hungover day, and Sunday is PreDoom day."
From: Urban Dictionary
I'm voting for a change in the calendar. If there can be "hump day" and TGI Friday and "doomday," and "pre-doomday," then why not a catchy name for that day or afternoon or morning that comes after work but before writing?
I don't know about you, but I never drive away from my office ready to dive into my current work in progress. In fact, there are weeks when the hardest part of writing is the transition from worker-brain to writer-brain.
I love my job as a communications director for a busy non-profit. I feel fortunate to work 32 hours per week, usually Tuesday through Friday. Oh yes, I hate when that dang alarm clock rings. And I despise the pre-work choreography--you know, the cereal-coffee-shower-select-an-outfit routine. I'm never awake enough to get it right first time.
But once I get the matching socks on, once I actually get to work, the day flies by and I enjoy my colleagues and my daily tasks. I enjoy it all the more because I know that, come Friday evening, I have three whole days of writing time.
Or do I?
The older I get, the more transition time I need. I need a metaphorical green room in which I can rest up and make that switch from worker (public) me to writer (private) me.
Writer and worker. They are quite different people. At work, I think my colleagues would say that I'm chatty and upbeat (on good days), deliberate but efficient at getting things done. But holed up in my writer's den, I'm much, much more organic (scattered?). I'm more given to self-flagellation and artistic despair. I'm quiet and solitary. And, even when I'm writing (or trying to write) witty, I'm often serious and dark.
So once the working week is done, how to do that old switcher-oo? How to put all that efficiency and teamwork and left-brain-ness into cold storage until the alarm goes off and it's time for the matching socks again? How do we shush the workplace water-cooler chat to hear, instead, our own unique writing voices?
The switch isn't easy. Not for me. In fact, some weeks are so busy, so all-consuming that I need a down day.
Down day? Um ... No. Hate that name. Hate its connotations (down = feeling down = downward slide = getting down on yourself).
Listen, whatever we're going to name this writer-in-transition time, this set of hours and mental space betwen work and writing, we can start by making that time more productive, restorative, more writer-ready.
Here are 5 strategies that work for me:
1. Exercise - You've had enough desk surfing. After work, get out there and walk or run or go to the gym.
2. Small assignments - Before you set out on that walk or run, stuff a work in progress in your backpack. After your workout, grab a tea and spend an hour reading and editing. It's just an hour. You're just reading. But this gets you back into writer-you.
3. Do something just for you -- A yoga class, a massage, a visit to you local art gallery, lunch with your kids or partner or a good friend. A deliberate spate of self-nurturing helps us to feel like our day jobs neither own nor define us.
4. Write in your journal. Writing about your work week gets it out of your system. Oh, and don't forget to list of all the wonderful things you accomplished this week.
5. Read--A poem, a novel, an article on writing, a personal essay that inspires or informs. Reading something we love is a great way to say, "Goodbye work. Hello me."
Whether it's an hour or a day or an afternoon, how do you transition from day-job you to writer you? And writers, what should we name this transition time?